I recently came across a website that expressed views about South Africa and South Africans in general that disturbed me. I am not going to highlight the site by mentioning it here, but I have posted my response below.

You should have a disclaimer on your site indicating that you don't speak for:

  1. All, or even most, South Africans, and
  2. All, or even most, white South Africans.
Why would you see all blacks, most especially a black child, as being someone worthy of hate? What has she ever done to harm you? And if you hate her because of the potential she has to harm you when she grows up, is she justified in hating you (or your children) for the potential you have to harm her? This philosophy only leads to endless hate and unhappiness.

Can you honestly say that most black South Africans are worthy of your hate and contempt? Have you even spoken to enough black South Africans to have an opinion? I agree that there is a vocal minority who are blatant racists and are deserving of contempt, but they are just that - a minority. And even they deserve contempt and not hatred.

I don't believe that BBBEE, or AA are good tools to solve our problems. I also hate the crime and violence. I am worried about the direction that our country is taking. But I don't have to hate people to express that concern. I don't have to incite or condone violence against children (or adults, for that matter) in order to let people know how I feel. By perpetuating hate you are perpetuating the problems that South Africa is facing. The problem is widespread indifference, and racial intolerance by a vocal minority. You're part of the problem, and your attitude is making it worse.

Your site could document your feelings and concerns, and highlight the crime problem WITHOUT resorting to racial attacks that do nothing more than alienate normal people who are concerned with the problems we face, and give the government and other political figures a target to point to as an example of how the social problems of our past have not gone away, but are "deep rooted in the community".

You are not a part of my community, and I distance myself from you and all like you. People are people, skin colour and tone is incidental. Learn to deal with that and I'm sure you will be a happier person. It must be terribly difficult living with the burden of hate that appears to be the focal point of your life.